Category: Life by Design (Page 8 of 20)

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How to Find Your ‘Big Idea’ for Biz

Ever wonder how to find your ‘big idea’ for biz and really get into your ‘element’?

You watch all these fresh new entrepreneurs, popping out like daisies, and you ask yourself “what IS their secret?”

Successful business moguls usually talk about the hard work they’ve put in, and some even talk of luck, and being ‘in the right place, at the right time’.

(Smart) Hard work, consistently, is par for the course. And timing may play a part in how quickly they reach their goals.

BUT.

The real secret sauce to succeeding as an entrepreneur, the stuff no one talks about… is your ELEMENT.

Sure, we talk about market research and finding your ideal client… but before you even go there, your success depends on you finding your element.

What’s that?!?

Everyone alive has a sweet spot where skill and passion intersect into a unique cocktail recipe for your success.

Your element is the place in which you thrive naturally; it’s where you lose track of space and time, where you’re “in the zone” if you will. It’s more than a hobby, more than a passion, because you can’t outgrow it. Your element is truly yours.

How do you find your element?

You start with a simple exercise. Take an ol’ fashioned piece of paper and draw 2 columns. Write your skills on one side, and your passions (and serious, persistent interests) in the other (yes, with a pen!). Write EVERYTHING that comes to mind and feels true. Then compare the columns. Do any of these jive? Could any of these combos work together, either in a traditional or a creative way?

For example, could your skill for teaching and your passion for hydroponics become an online course for urban gardeners or agricultural students? Could your skill for crunching numbers and your passion for cooking lead to a consulting service for new or struggling restauranteurs? Perhaps you have a knack for styling people and you are so passionate about women’s self-esteem that you offer custom wardrobes to overweight or post-partum women.

You get the idea.

Now list your heroes (living, fictional, deceased). What do they have in common? How are you like them?

What did you want to be when you were a kid? What did you want to be when you were a teenager, and then in college? Do you remember why? See if any of these dreams had any common thread.

You’ll start to notice trends.

It seems simple, but there’s no set number of elements in the universe… and you may have several, but you have at least one. So be patient with yourself, and look at these exercises with excitement, as you discover your secret code, your success recipe.

What do you think your element is?

The Upside of Slowing Down

I’m one of these people who likes to go-go-go.

I’m often involved in several projects at a time, I was an A-student, a model employee and had an active lifestyle. Yet, nothing about me would lead you to believe that I thrive at this pace.

I like spending time reading and writing, walking in nature, listening to music, enjoying a meal in good company. I like cycling and dancing. I prefer to work from home, in my sanctuary. My activities of choice and my environment tell the story of someone who likes slow living and small pleasures.

Sure, I accomplish(ed) a lot, and have tried different things, mostly because I’m curious. But that doesn’t mean that I find my bliss, my sweet spot of happiness, there. (At least not exclusively.)

In fact, my most memorable, most joyful moments, are those I can remember clearly because I’ve slowed down enough to record it in my mind as they were felt in my heart.

“There is no side effect to slowing down except impatience.”

We were told this in yoga teacher training a few times.  I sure could feel the impatience rise when I had to slow down a sequence, or my breath…

I think I get impatient because I’m caught up in this notion that when I’m doing, I’m worthy. When in fact, being is enough.

When I slow down, I notice things I’ve never even seen or heard or smelled before. I recently discovered a stream a few blocks from my home. I’ve been living in my house 3.5 years already and I had no clue this little wonder existed. I only stumbled upon it because I took the time to go for a stroll and take the time to walk a different path. I decided to cross somewhere I would’ve disregarded before and suddenly, I could hear the water trickling. And I was drawn to it. I had to feel it for myself. I had to soak it all in. I was there for maybe 20 minutes? I’m not sure. I walked home feeling refreshed and now, I know I have this little haven near home, in the city!

My happiest moments are those I've slowed down enough to record in my mind because I felt them in my heart. - Bright Star Mercedes

There are other invaluable experiences I owe to slowing down… discovering hole in the wall restaurants or courtyards while exploring a new place, sharing authentic conversations and hearty laughter with my friends at a BBQ at my house, or even just enjoying the nurturing exchange when cuddling Nala, my cat.

Slowing down is a great act of self-care, in a world that tells us to go fast and do more. The challenges to slowing down may be many, but the greatest one, I find, will always be my own impatience.

As I sip my homemade smoothie, I toast your slowing-down moment of the day and I hope it’s as sweet as these berries…yum!

What do you do to slow down? What are the benefits you noticed in your life when you actually take time to slow down?

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