Category: Shine (Page 12 of 30)

This includes posts on self-care, personal development, self-discovery.

The Upside of Slowing Down

I’m one of these people who likes to go-go-go.

I’m often involved in several projects at a time, I was an A-student, a model employee and had an active lifestyle. Yet, nothing about me would lead you to believe that I thrive at this pace.

I like spending time reading and writing, walking in nature, listening to music, enjoying a meal in good company. I like cycling and dancing. I prefer to work from home, in my sanctuary. My activities of choice and my environment tell the story of someone who likes slow living and small pleasures.

Sure, I accomplish(ed) a lot, and have tried different things, mostly because I’m curious. But that doesn’t mean that I find my bliss, my sweet spot of happiness, there. (At least not exclusively.)

In fact, my most memorable, most joyful moments, are those I can remember clearly because I’ve slowed down enough to record it in my mind as they were felt in my heart.

“There is no side effect to slowing down except impatience.”

We were told this in yoga teacher training a few times.  I sure could feel the impatience rise when I had to slow down a sequence, or my breath…

I think I get impatient because I’m caught up in this notion that when I’m doing, I’m worthy. When in fact, being is enough.

When I slow down, I notice things I’ve never even seen or heard or smelled before. I recently discovered a stream a few blocks from my home. I’ve been living in my house 3.5 years already and I had no clue this little wonder existed. I only stumbled upon it because I took the time to go for a stroll and take the time to walk a different path. I decided to cross somewhere I would’ve disregarded before and suddenly, I could hear the water trickling. And I was drawn to it. I had to feel it for myself. I had to soak it all in. I was there for maybe 20 minutes? I’m not sure. I walked home feeling refreshed and now, I know I have this little haven near home, in the city!

My happiest moments are those I've slowed down enough to record in my mind because I felt them in my heart. - Bright Star Mercedes

There are other invaluable experiences I owe to slowing down… discovering hole in the wall restaurants or courtyards while exploring a new place, sharing authentic conversations and hearty laughter with my friends at a BBQ at my house, or even just enjoying the nurturing exchange when cuddling Nala, my cat.

Slowing down is a great act of self-care, in a world that tells us to go fast and do more. The challenges to slowing down may be many, but the greatest one, I find, will always be my own impatience.

As I sip my homemade smoothie, I toast your slowing-down moment of the day and I hope it’s as sweet as these berries…yum!

What do you do to slow down? What are the benefits you noticed in your life when you actually take time to slow down?

4 Reasons To Sing Daily

If you’re familiar with my story, you know that I did not like to sing for the longest time. I also hated to sing in front of anyone. I was so afraid to be mocked or shamed…

But then, I discovered that one of the attributes of my clan (Maa’ingan Dodem) is to use their voice, in every sense of the word.

And through yoga’s chanting, like Om, Shanti and various other call and response or kirtans, I overcame the block I’d hidden behind. I stopped feeling that song was about performance or having a beautiful voice, and it became an exercise because I used my body’s instrument – the voice. Chanting became an expression of harmony and a way for me to reclaim my health and my confidence.

I know using my voice has improved my physical, mental and emotional health.

Here are 4 reasons to sing daily:

1- Song Activates Your Throat Chakra (5th Chakra)

In the West, we live in a society that is focused on multimedia and online connection, and we’re uncomfortable with silence, but we’re mortified about making noise ourselves… We don’t want to speak in public, we don’t hum to ourselves as we walk down the street, we can’t voice our thoughts and feelings…what if someone hears us?!?

The throat chakra is about sound, whether that is listening or speaking (or singing). By not fulling activating our throat chakras, we suffer from all kinds of physical and emotional ailments.

The result is that we don’t speak up, we don’t express our needs and wants (at work or in relationships), we swallow anger and resentment because we don’t feel heard / that it’s safe to express ourselves. Physically, we develop all kinds of throat, jaw, teeth and hearing problems. We snore and grind our teeth, we have neck pain…

We talk, but we don’t say anything; we hear but we don’t listen.

When we sing or chant, we use a tool in our bodies that activates the throat chakra. The more you use your voice, the more it becomes a habit to express yourself. The more you express yourself and feel heard, the easier it becomes to listen.

2-Song Is Breathwork

Your voice is a vibrational tool, and it’s a built-in part of your body. In order to produce sound, you need to breathe, and if you want to project, you need to use your diaphragm and these nifty things called abominals.

Singing (or chanting), can help you become more aware of your breath, while giving your midsection a bit of a workout.

Breath work is one of the most powerful, and most accessible, stress-relievers; while your core is your power center because without abdominals you couldn’t stand or walk or lift anything. Engaging your core to do something enjoyable like singing is saying to your body; you can achieve great things AND have fun.

Song is an active and fun way to meditate!

3-It Helps You Detach from Ego

Honestly, we’re so focused on productivity and perfection and performance, that we need to stop taking ourselves too seriously. It’s soul crushing! Singing regularly, whether you sing “well” or not, will help you break out of trying to be ‘perfect’. Start slow, by singing on your own, or with the radio, then around people you love and trust (and who’ll sing with you). Before you know it, you’ll be ‘shaking it off’ with Taylor Swift on your ride to the grocery store.

4-Your Perspective Shifts

Sound has an impact on our nervous systems. An uncomfortable repetitive sound can increase our cortisol production (the stress hormone). But a pleasant sound can help us relax and create positive brain chemistry.

When we sing, our energy rises, especially if we sing something upbeat. Have you ever tried to sing with a frown? How about hunched over? It doesn’t work. Sit up or stand tall, look ahead or look inside, but smile and belt it out. Singing helps us shift into gratitude, beauty and harmony.

"When we sing, our energy rises." - Bright Star Mercedes

How do you feel about singing or chanting? Do you have any hangups about it? How do you overcome your fear of being out of tune and just enjoy the music?

 

 

 

 

 

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