Author: Bright Star Woman (Page 22 of 39)

Bright Star Woman is an energy coach who helps people reconcile their four energy bodies to create meaningful lives through greater awareness, overall health, and intentional choices.

Mercedes is a spiritual writer and an Usui & Blue Star reiki master, who believes that seeing yourSelf for who you are; a bright being of light will inevitably change your life.

Are Your Agreements Holding You Back?

What ‘agreements’ are holding you back that you’re not even aware of?

Everyone talks about mindset and limiting beliefs.

But did you know that even more powerful than that, deeply rooted, you have agreements that dictate how you shape your world?

No word of a lie, we all have them. We’re incarnated souls, therefore we have contracts, including the ones we make while we’re here on Earth.

So what IS an agreement?

It’s an energetic contract that you make, where you enlist a belief to become true for you in your life.

Agreements can be great, especially because they’re so powerful. But they can also be damaging when you’re unaware of them and even, let them lapse…

Agreements can serve you or hinder you.

Here’s an example of an agreement that hinders you.

If you grew up in a very poor household, your parents may have told you that money doesn’t grow on trees (limiting beliefs). Say bullies at school would tease you about being poor, and how your parents’ jobs were silly/worthless. You may then have felt such shame, that you’d believed that your family had done something wrong, and therefore did not deserve abundance and wealth.

Therefore, all your following choices would have kept you playing small, and making enough money to fulfill your needs, but not enough to be wealthy.

You may have believed that people with money were bullies, making you resist money for fear of becoming the bully. Or, you could have taken that precariousness, and decided that you’d never feel it again and centre your life around money, blinding you to any path that didn’t come with a certain amount of dollar signs.

Agreements can be made around strong feelings or traumas, but they can also be rewritten in awareness. Agreements can be inherited from a previous life or be made in this lifetime. Our agreements shape our world, and by how it is shaped, we realize whether they are serving or hindering us.

This really is just scratching the surface of what agreements are and how they can impact our lives. I dig into this further with my clients, but the first step is awareness.

Agreements can be made around strong feelings or traumas, but they can also be rewritten in awareness.

If you could guess where in your life you have an agreement that no longer serves you, what would it be?

PS: If you’re ready to experience a breakthrough, hop on a free discovery call with me. We’ll discuss the issue holding you back, we’ll assess where you are on your journey and you’ll walk away with a custom self-care exercise to help you shift your energy so things start moving. http://bit.ly/discoverbrightstarwoman

How to find your biz identity without a title

Do you share my networking nightmare?

You’re chatting, networking and people ask you the dreaded:

‘What do you do?’

You’re sweating and babbling because, of course, YOU know what you do, but you feel like you’re explaining it all wrong, and you just don’t really have a label for yourself.

It can be tough if you haven’t come up with a savvy made-up title like “social media guru”, “programming & design ninja” or “organizer extraordinaire”.

And frankly, if you can’t nail a fun title, don’t even go there.

So…

How do you find your identity as an entrepreneur, outside of the corporate world of titles?

You’ve probably heard of the elevator pitch, yes? (The one that describes you and your biz in under 30 seconds, reminiscent of an elevator ride convo?)

Ok, good. Same concept, softer approach.

The point isn’t to “sell” your biz at all costs, but to get super clear and comfortable with the words to say the following:

“I’m (name), I’m passionate about (field/expertise), and I work with (niche) to help them do (solution/transformation).”

THAT’S IT!

Come up with several versions of this, and get super cozy with your keywords.

Here’s an example.

I’m Mercedes, I’m passionate about helping entrepreneurs-to-be leave their 9-to-5 to pursue their passion projects.

I’m Mercedes, I help worker bees transition to entrepreneurs before they make the leap so they start their biz on the right foot.

I’m Mercedes, a holistic mindset practitioner. I work with fed-up nine-to-fivers who want to pursue a purpose that their jobs can’t or won’t allow. I help them bridge the gap between worker bee and entrepreneur so they can begin working effectively in their biz from the start.

You’ll notice the message is exactly the same and there are similar words.

Finding your identity really just means understanding your position and those magic words on the other end of:

“Who am I”, “What do I offer” and “Who am I serving”?

In other words:

What lights me up?
What do I rock at?
Who’d say ‘shut up and take my money’?

 

How to Find Your Biz Identity Without a Title

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