Category: Shine (Page 7 of 30)

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Are You in The Entrepreneur Closet?

It’s Sunday dinner with the parents and your leg is fidgeting under the table as you down your second glass of pinot noir.

You dread the moment they’ll ask you:

“How’s the job going? Did you get that promotion?”

You’ve been passed up. Again. 🙁

Ever since, you’ve been seriously considering striking out on your own.

Your partner’s already been giving you side glances, meaning:

“Are you sure you know what you’re doing?”

Your stomach is in knots.

What if I disappoint them?

You’d be giving up your corporate job, your steady salary and prestige.

What if I’m not who they think I am anymore?

Ready for a truth bomb?

You are NOT your job.
Or your title.
Or how much cash you have in the bank.

No “job” can ever define you. Sure, their experiences can shape you, as you allow it to, but it’s just not who you are.

So who ARE you?

You’re a smart, hard working, creative person with a passion project.

You have drive and a resilient nature.

You are the square peg, who says ‘f – the round hole!’

You’ve felt the entrepreneurial calling and now it’s time for you to plan to leap…

The people who love you, and your relationship with them, will evolve with you.

Your loved ones might be worried at first, but when they see how the work of this path lights you up, their tune will change.

How do you plan to come out of the entrepreneur closet?

Thinking of Business Coaching?

A few years ago, I was a bright-eyed entrepreneur-to-be, still caught in my 9-to-5 but committed to leaving my job. I thought it’d be pretty straightforward; come up with an idea, work hard, put in the time and voilà.

When that approach failed, along with my network marketing biz, I hired a business and marketing coach. After months of toiling, I was broke and I had no results to show for any of it.

I respectfully opted out of my biz coaching, and decided I needed to reexamine my priorities and see where I’d gone wrong.

The Inner Work

Through self-awareness, counselling with Elders, guided journeys, meditation, and a yoga and reiki practice, I discovered my wounds, the agreements they lead me to form, and how those agreements kept me playing small, and feeling defeated and unhappy.

I was astounded to realize the ocean of subconscious beliefs and agreements I’d made that no longer served me.

I cried at the unkindness I’d shown myself over the years.

And it hit me.

I never could have succeeded, in any business, or with any amount of business coaching, no matter how great, without doing this personal work. I needed to become aware of the nuts and bolts, the rusty gears and the monkey wrenches in there, keeping me from reaching my full potential.

No amount of business coaching could have made me a successful entrepeneur; not without me doing the personal work. I needed to be aware of what was holding me back from my full potential. - Bright Star Mercedes

SPOILER

I did it!!!

Now, I’m in biz and can say I’m proud to work with a biz coach, but frankly, I’d gotten here a lot faster (and a lot cheaper!) with help from someone who could have guide me holistically, hold up a mirror for me, provide healing words and practices and holding space for me.

Because I did it on my own, but realized how my life was transformed, I wanted to offer everything I’d received in one convenient format. That’s when I uncovered my own Element; my skills and experience in teaching and sharing ancient wisdom, and my passion for helping people break their chains intersected harmoniously in a holistic mindset practice.

I truly believe in business coaching, and I’m proof that “doing your personal work” first is not a myth; it has a very real impact on your success.

So tell me, do you think you’ve done a thorough mindset audit? What do you think might trip you up?

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